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FAILURES

Pretty sure I wouldn't be here if it weren't for some important failures and setbacks that life decided to bring along the way. 

 

Know how they say: ”be careful what you wish for”? Well, in the same time, ”what you fear most will come true” has found me when I was least expecting. Of course. :-) 

 

The irony is that I was actually preparing the ”Fears and Failures” conference, when I got the idea of writing a nice message to a few bloggers, so they can join our communication campaign pre-event. 

 

Long story short, after days of preparation, here stands in front of my eyes a message which started with: ”Dear {FirstName}”. The message has been sent in a bulk to aprox. 20-30 of the bloggers, some of the most important local ones I might add. 

 

A thread quickly developed, jokes and harsh messages started to follow. I have done it, I've ruined the conference's image. Three long breaths, let's not panic. I'm sure we can fix this. 

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This is how it went:

Step 1: speak with the team's manager and inform the CEO, take responsibility for the issue

Step 2: send a ”reply all” message, with the same humorous tone + include cute hashtags

Step 3: send a personalised message to each and every one of them, in a relaxed but serious tone, taking responsibility for the error

Step 4: include an invitation to meet personally for a coffee and further discuss about a possible collaboration

 

Outcome:

  • some of the most professional bloggers quickly changed the tone of the thread, asking their colleagues to understand it was an honest mistake

  • some of them even thought it was a smart way of catching their attention, since it was for the ”Fears and Failures” conference

  • most of them accepted the invitation to meet personally and successfully collaborated in various campaigns ever since

  • the error remained ”in the house” and not even one blogger posted about it

  • the conference was a success

  • my former colleagues and I can still have a good laugh about this 

LESSONS

The most important lesson from the story above is: always send a personalised, custom tailored message for the press, bloggers or any media person. The community and personal relationship we create with each other can make the difference between a successful or a failed story.

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But the lessons we learn are not only important from the professional point of view; see, I quickly understood integrity has to be both personally and professionally, otherwise it will simply not work well. 

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During our life, we have tons of AHA moments. We get defined by the experiences, places, actions and people surrounding us.

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Hundreds of moments of personal research and one sabbatical year helped me better answer some important questions and thus, define the personal business model.

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During the European Volunteering Service, I literally calmed down and started to live life on a slower pace, learning in a non-formal way.
 

This is what I learned, by doing it:

  • hold space for persons, myself included

  • live in the moment, but plan for the future in a smart way

  • give up expectations

  • stop being a perfectionist who gets stuck

  • work smarter, not harder

  • active listening 

  • assertiveness

  • patience

© 2024 by Andreea Celmare @ Heilindi

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